Talk about a marriage
Important matter of marriage of male and female, depend on parental life, classics go-between is matched, think be matched for marriage, crossing-over " age is stuck " (The age, birthday character 8) before pressing Yu Zaojun God clean teacup bottom, in order to survey divine intention. Gas of sour of broken, meal, family is knocked to brabble without bowl small cup in be like the home inside 3 days, feline dog uneasiness " unusual " circumstance, ask soothsayer " platoon character 8 " , see the time of a person's birth whether suitable, any of the twelve animals has without photograph gram. Old times somebody is superstitious and alleged 6 years of favorable opposition, 3 years small strong; Feng Shuang of male marriage age, woman 19 do not marry; Call gallinaceous dog (gallinaceous dog is on bad terms) , Long Hu (dragon Hu Xiangdou) , Hu Yang (Yang Lahu mouth) , anguine rat (the snake swallows mice) difficult suitable, wait for after thinking to help somebody attain his aim only then discuss close.
Betrothal
Discuss before betrothal close, discuss close only then discuss " little gift " , in mercenary marriage time all argy-bargy. General " 4 kermes " or " 6 kermes " (the four boundaries of a piece of land or a construction site of dress material of silks and satins 6) , jin Jiezi two, golden dangler a pair; Betrothal gift, little gift 36, in ceremony 64, great gift 120 (silver dollar) ; Food, several " 64 " , namely 64 right, oil wrap Baotou 64, hemp cake wait 64 times, still have wine 2 differ to 8, reason unripe child has " wine Beng " say. After betrothal, the man uses afore-mentioned gift bar case to carry to the woman. Woman recompense is golden group, oily bag and girl to be tasted from the embroider that do more. Betrothal proof, the man sends " pass a book " , common says " Gong Lushu paper " (paper two outside red inside green) , the woman sends " time stick " approbate, common says " civil calm " . The husband and wife when old friends and acquaintances brabbles, the wife often says I am to have " Gong Lushu paper " , restrain the husband with this. Afterwards " civil calm " hind pick an auspicious day marry, choose by inn of choose an auspicious day " good day " day. Give sb a present of relatives and friends, BridalIt is cash more, or axis of happy a large, happy event, and book with " hundred years close very much, 5 worlds its prosperous " , " heaven-made union " wait. Send marry the ceremony is embroider more or bedcover of silks and satins, by head or daily expense implements, also have send red jujube, earthnut, longan, lotus seed, contain " be born early expensive child " meaning.
Old times has go-between to cannot drink tea into the door firstConsuetudinary, call " intermediary does not drink tea " , said to drink tea communications center to talk about marriage. Call go-between again " intermediary 100 cabinet " , intermediary is become can eat on " 100 eat " , should propose a toast with " wine thanking intermediary " , but disaccord of husband and wife or wife and mother are like after marriage not harmonious, go-between has intercessory responsibility.
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