The introduction here is given priority to with common of marriage of capital standard full person only. Although Beijing marriage common has full Chinese part, except when to differ significantly beyond, cardinal principle is identical. The alleged intermediary Shuo of common of full person marriage, it is a men and women only two kin old friends and acquaintances, contact alternates, 10 show dew is seamed, love kisses, it is the ability act as a matchmaker of " of full-time " woman matchmaker anything but. Beijing humanness makes intermediary, common says " drinks " of wax gourd soup. It is not easy really to drink wax gourd boiling water, should leave a heart to remember some first some a perfect match between a man and a girl, arrive next the men and women says twice, contact runway, cost time, compensate capital, a bit does not have pay. Say cent agrees so that the men and women has just a little twice, pass " portal card next " . Parent full name, official rank, place mentions expressly to belong to banner cent on post, BridegroomThe sketchy personal details such as the profession. Allow two lane to ask, inquiring content is: Family financial situation of the bridegroom's or husband's family how? Is bridegroom ambitious? Have without unmentionable disease of evil be addicted to? Family education of the bride's side how? Girl appearance how? Gentle and quiet? Can needlework? Inquiring content surface is such, very deep sense includes however inside. For example the bride's side has one only female, raise coddle, the bridegroom's or husband's family go up however have two husband's father and mother, in much sisters-in-law sister, below many child brother's son, this cannot be made in person. Ask appropriate later, inform go-between photograph looks, right now both sides of male and female still does not know in, kiss photograph of until close relatives and friends to look by two domestic honour only, not was opposite absolutely look relatively, each other is connected heartfelt feelings. Look acceptability hind, " of small post of crossing-over " the time of a person's birth, arrive severally add up to marriage place marriage. With the men and women in going up, 9 palace eduction issues third class marriage. Even if is " coarse " of 5 ghost marriage, should might as well only cannot can be made close. Belong to photograph offend as to the men and women, what " Bai Ma is afraid of Wu Niu " , "Ovine hare tear communicates " and so on, be won't some, if some words are connected then marriage need not close. Synthesizing marriage hind is " article decides " , namely " is put small calm " . Exemple with bullion ring pouch each 9 pairs, distinguish with family circumstances how many. Civil after deciding, marriage of provision of the bridegroom's or husband's family is married, provision of the bride's side is married the garment, but by civil decide wedding day, must have quite time, it is certain to be done not have every time. The bride's side is in civil after deciding, restrain a girl to must not go out, tone breath body. Face before marrying " of " Dian Yan should salute inside January, namely enlarge of alleged " communication decides " . It is before communication, the bridegroom's or husband's family is asked for
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